WELCOME TO CRAPTASTIC CANCER

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Cancer is craptastic. It shows up uninvited, wrecks your plans, and leaves you wondering, 'Why me?' But here I was wading through it anyway.

I was diagnosed with breast cancer at the age of 41, while managing life with my wonderful husband and four children at home. I was in the midst of a busy schedule when the rug was pulled out from under me. I went from driving my kids to their activities to being driven myself to surgery, chemotherapy, and radiation appointments.


There were days when I wanted to stay in bed and pull the covers over my head, but hiding away wouldn't change my diagnosis. Some days, I struggled with a bad attitude and felt isolated—not because I lacked support, but because I couldn't fully articulate my feelings. I realized that, ultimately, I was the only one who could wade through the “crap”.


To pull myself together, I kept a favorite quote in mind: “Being negative only makes a difficult journey more difficult. You may have been given a cactus, but you don’t have to sit on it.” I discovered that it was vital to stay positive and try to find humor in the situation.


This blog is my way of sharing what I’ve learned along the way.  You’ll find honest tips on treatment and side effects, product suggestions (comfort items, books, etc.), humor to lighten the load, personal experiences, and community support, because you are not alone in this.


Stick around. Laugh with me, cry with me, learn with me.


If you’re in the middle of your own craptastic cancer journey, drop a comment below—what’s one thing that’s helped you get through a rough day? I’d love to hear.


You’ve got this. We’ve got this.

Love, Heidi


A quick note:

Not medical advice. I’m not a doctor—just a woman who’s been through it. Always consult your doctor before trying any tips, products, or suggestions. This is personal experience only.

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